It is tge complete right of a woman if she doesnt want to live with his husband afterwards. Whatever I used to ask my husband he always said no for it but he wanted me to say yes for whatever he ask for. my dear kar, They avoid disagreements and quarrels and leave the wife ignorant of their second marriage as if this marriage just belongs to the man and has nothing to do with the wife. Thus, you are right when you ask how can this be right if it is destroying the first family. Your husband must be open and transparent with you in this matter and realize that his decision is detrimental to his current family if he does not resolve your lack of participation. If you want a second wife you can go out and get one as long as you know that I will not be here when you come back! We need to be more respected. I am definitely not of the temperament that would allow me to share. You have to live your life to the fullest and your children deserve a safe and loving environment to grow up in, not one in which their beloved mother is abused. I prayed that she will accept me. Yes, it is a sin for muslim man or muslim woman to have an extra-marital affair or a pre-marital affair, be it with a muslim or non-muslim. You are right there sister, I fell the same way my husband keep telling me that he is allow to Marry and so he would not need my permission to do so. Good question. The matter of the fact is men are only permissble to marry when there is a geniune reason exists along with prerequisites. The provisions for divorce to a marriage under Muslim law, when initiated by the wife, are known as khula and talaq-e-tafwid. If you are living off her money. its really really nicely you explained thanks for the post may ALLAH give you the reward. He uttered the divorce words three times in one meeting, then I went back to my parents house. arguments arise amongst them, which turn the marital relationship into an Mohammad made the rules for his time for some purpose. good care of her. Daeef al-Jaami al-Sagheer, no. Second wife! Chapter 4, Verse 34 2. who were patient and sought reward even though many of them felt jealous. (i`m not pregnant) his family told him to do second marriage. 4. STOP BEING SELFISH LADIES.HELP UR MUSLIMS SISTERS TO HV DIGNITY N PRIDE IM A MARRIED WOMANI WOULD ALLOW MY HUSBAND TO REMARRY IF HE DOES THAT WITH A SOLID REASON WHICH CONNECTED TO ALLAHS WILL.ILL MAKE SURE HE WOULD FOLLOW THE RULES N REGULATION IN A POLYGAMYESPECIALLY THE NAFKAH PARTWHERE SEXUALLY N FINANCIALLY SUPPORT R CONCERNED..IF NOT I WOULD SEE THE KADHI TO CLAIM MY RIGHT First bring your husband to defend himself. Finally, smart men do exist!! We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. 4. God only made Adam and Eve, not Eve and Elizabeth. I hardly ever hear any good. After all my warnings and threats of leaving he abandoned the idea. We can hold up our own end and run the household just as equally like men. Polygamy, Not My Problem- A Muslim Woman. Id rather get a divorce form my husband than allow him to be married to another person. All men think about other women. thats not the issue. sis if u r true Muslim then I would deeply advise you to fear ALLAH. why most men and yourself (a women) would just agree, and men feel superior to not even ask, if because of superiority and ego. Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is rewarded. It is a mans NEED. I have to stay with my parents. She cries every time they have intercourse and are intimate. Thanks for advice. However, I could be a second wife, no problem but I could NOT EVER be a first wife whose husband then took a second. Look at the way he was with his wives. Nice. Very good knowledge!! Ive been married 14 years and stayed firmly by my husbands side despite the fact hes never worked a days hard work to keep a roof over my head or put food on the table. Must be wise in facing the jealousy of women. Love or Respect: Which Do You Prefer?. So that really shows how big a mans right is in this issue. subhanallah! To those of you brothers who work at trying to be kind, considerate and loving to your wives, may Allah give you an enormous reward. This kind of cases are very common among Muslims you can search it o. I loved it all. Life is no life without peace. That is a bit of a dangerous position to be in. This idea is put forward in the Quran where Allah says: (ITS LIKE HIS SAYING ITS OKAY TO BE A LAZY MUSLIM-WHEN ITS NOT)Brothers should do the utmost best to emulate the life of the prophet and their should be no excuses brothers are too busy lecturing sisters on how to be a good wife when their forgetting about their own individual selves. Many of the schools of thought also require a husband to fulfill his wifes sexual needs and this is not at all ruled out by this Hadith which I think some people feel it may be. There are several other reasons, why Islam has permitted limited polygyny, but it is mainly to protect the modesty of women. assalamualaikum,, I not married as yet but I see so much truth in this article by examples of those married or who has been married around me. 4. i`m sleeping alone. Salam We have been married for 18 years. I completely agree. Oh well, baby steps. Do you think anyone cares about what you think when we have the Quran and the Sunnah?! Dont make things harms..where does it say men should ask their wives permission to many another???????? Cant it wait till the weekend? foundation, not on a foundation of pleasing Allaah and His Messenger My above statement was based on what I have understood from the article. After 2 weeks, a group of ladies from my family went to my in-laws house for patch up, but in front of them my husband again repeated the divorce words three times. Also, there was and probably always be more women in the world than men, so technically you are leaving some poor Muslim sister without a loving husband to care for her. I am again into depression and dont know what to do. Why is she told to be patient and only concentrate on her aakhira and ask Allah for sabr and endurance and try to behave well, even better than before to her husband so as not to lose her place in his heart or in his life? Below is an explanation of one of the verses of the Quran. Id understand if it were for a womans survival purposes but never for pleasure. Now coming to the original question, why is a man allowed to have more than one wife? 1. to grant you what is desired by you i am too selfish when is comes to my husband. It doesnt mean hes going to cheat on you. I may not have it word for word though. both of you. the same punishment will happen to him. WE HAVE BEEN STUDYING THIS SUBJECT ABOUT MORE THEN ONE WIFE. Get to know the conditions required for it to be healthy and practiced properly. (3) Dispute over marriage between the lady and her husband.. Marriage contract involving an unidentified woman: Death, if the.In general, the marriage of a married woman, or of . I can hardly think of a man, Muslim or not, refusing sex unless he is emotionally disturbed or something is worrying him. But for the sake of all our good, call it truce and take care of each other, and dont resort to these extreme rights. It is genuine real life issue and needs to be answered islamically. How many muslim men have actually married more than 1 wife around you? And trust me, if your husband must choose between divorcing you before he takes a second wife. I have read it myself. that is the only aspect of islam which i never believed in nor i will. And since Hajj is the jihad of a woman, accepting polygamy for the first wife is more than jihad. Unwanted sex! The same society, however, cannot accept a man having more than one wife, in which women retain their honourable, dignified position in society and lead a protected life. I agree with sara that certain parts of the article are rubbish. Islam is about logic and clear thinking. I would understand this rule if it was practiced under emergency circumstances such as after a war when there are a lot of widows who can't support their families, or in a society when women outnumber the men. has to repent to Allaah. The threat of a husband who can not be fair, Men who already have two wives, then he should be able to support them fairly. Knowledge of these matters. Divorce does not mean divorce. What happens if you hate his touch or being intimate with him n never look forward to it ever. As it is the duty of Muslims to fulfill all obligations, the Muslim husband cannot but honor such a condition. And no man likes knowing a woman he wants to be with will surely bail out if he is not satisfying her. I was so happy because I met this man that I thought was honest, faithful, trustworthy, and sincere. The destiny which almighty Allah has written for you in this life, The test he would put a person to see his or her patience. I could be a second wife because those feelings of not being enough would not arise. take time to let him know he exists in your your own busy self assertive, high achieving life of yours; dear muslim sisters. I remembered so many years ago when the life of another woman depended on my decision and what my decision was. 2 If a woman accepts that and treats her husband and the One should learn how to respect his wife. Its HARAM to look at other women to begin with so how would it be ok for them to be attracted to other women.I dont look or think about anyone but my husband!! So its incumbent on the husband to be kind to his wife, discuss the matter with her in a gentle and pleasant manner, and this should be coupled with spending whatever money may be necessary in order to gain her acceptance of the situation. wife). If they do what you hate, beat them with a hard blow and hurt. The cookie is set by GDPR cookie consent to record the user consent for the cookies in the category "Functional". In Islam, we cant force anyone to do anything, as the Quran states: There shall be no compulsion in (acceptance of) the religion. (Quran: Chapter 2, Verse 256), SubhanAllah beautiful article mashAllah..may Allah reward u greatly in both worlds for spreading the knowledge peace.xx, Number 4 is rubbish..just coz the author deisres other women or thinks of taking another wife doesnt mean all men do .. most normal men are actually content with one wife..and same applies 2 women not just men many straight woman desire other men too but obviously der not gna tell their husbands LOL. He never mentioned a second wife again and I was happy with that. She took my hand and with tears in her eyes said: This is very hard for me, but I hope that we can be sisters her words broke my heart. Earlier, there was no restriction even on Hindu men with respect to the number of wives allowed. In general, being single and dreaming you are married is a good sign, but . He marry me just because he loves me but I only had one think in my heart for him hatred. He also told a lie that he has severe disease but that lady continues to intact with him. i have a daughter from my first marriage. That should really be the last stage. You have a nerve to say all men want another woman at some time. If the husband takes a second wife, the wife has a right to divorce him. As salaam alaikum, He got emotionally attached to this lady. (2) The lady is trying to get her daughter married. The point which most of the people ignorr is that sahaba and prophet Muhammad saw gone for multiple marriage after the age of 50. When was the last time a man was questioned about his wifes happiness? I liked him and I liked everything about him. Polygyny falls in the middle category of things that are permissible. No one deserves to be spoken to like that. If you still want to know more then as a sheikh. The bottom line though is I like ur article. I could see some poor girl who is being abused reading that and validating herself and coming back for more. The mind is what you will live with for fifty years. He did the same. Allah knows best. Remember, that We can NEVER change the Words of Allah Azawajal to suit Our selfish desires! Unfortunately this is the pooint most men ignore intentionally or unintentionally. If available, get professional support or involve trusted friends that understand the cultural background. Allah is watching and the almighty will give you strength and courage. dont thomp your thinking on all men! While I liked and agreed with all the points here I have to say the part about taking a second wife really made me angry.. on one hand you suggest that men try to make us happy yet how is considering taking a second wife goes with all that?? But there are no ex children. She can be a friend in difficult moments and she can understand the first wife. To the person who wrote this artical.. In Islam, marriage is a solemn contract for which the Shari`ah lays down rules and arrangements to guarantee its stability. However sex is the biggest right of man in marriage. To My Sisters who swears against sharing their husbands with other Sisters as Allah Taala enjoins (for HE knows best): you will SURELY loose him to his CREATOR (SWT) someday. subhan ALLAH. I am really impressed. I dont want to go back dont want to live with that man anymore. BarakAllahu feekum. I agree with Kay and I am a muslim Man. I really like your article however there are some contradictions in it. If hes doing his best to take care of you. 0.001%. Women crave respect and most definitly deserve it, communicating with your wife is a form of respect. Why do you think men like buying women gifts? arent they all superficial? It is also worth mentioning that the bride has the right before marriage to demand her fiance to agree in advance to certain conditions of hers, in case he is interested in pursuing another marriage later on. we believe in the whole of the book and accept Allah swts rule even if we cant fully understand it because He knows us better than we know ourselves. As for men cam think of other woman?? failure after only a few months, because they are based on a weak Women in 2017 dont need financial assistance from their spouse. This Turning on can be on different levels but its always there, whereas, this kind of attraction in women is nothing as compared to men, so she should be creative in keeping him attracted to herself, and always welcoming to the sexual needs of her husband! 1 - Her husband's marrying another wife is regarded as a test and trial for her, and if she bears that with patience she will have the reward for being patient in the face of a trial, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): "Only those who are patient shall receive their reward in full, without reckoning" [al-Zumar 39:10] That hadith is BOGUS. I know someone who says he loves his wife and yet wants to get married again! And if she isnt IN love with U it doesnt mean she cant be commited and faithful. SAHIH INTERNATIONAL You do realize Muslim men can take multiple wives, and live in multiple countries that allow polygamy?. Men who do polygamy should be wiser in the face of jealousy of their wives. commitment. Below is one of the verses of the Quran that explains this. Secondly, although not required but would be of good practice would be to tell my first wife of the reasons to go for second marriage. thats another thing his wife is age 25 and me 46. O ye who believe! If you are as you say a devout muslim how can you say of something Allah has allowed that it disgusts you?? Roles of man and wife are divided in Islam. You can decide to divorce him. This goes hand in hand with respect.Theres nothing that will ruin a marriage quicker than the idea that your spouse is not loyal. Answering your question, Sheikh M. S. Al-Munajjid, a prominent Saudi Muslim lecturer and author, states: DONT EXPECT RESPECT. continue to befall the believer, man or woman, concerning himself, his child The Jewish Sephardic communities living in Muslim countries continued the practice till as late as 1950, when an Act of the chief Rabbinate of Israel extended the ban on marrying more than one wife. alhamdulillah we were blessed with a lill princess.hubby has changed since I gave birth to our bby.he would touched me whenever he want.he loves kids so do I.i thought maybe its because he was tired thats why he refused to sleep with me in 3 to 4 days..after that he would come n touched me again.now I had to undergo an abortion. The Quran does state that the husband is allowed to take up to four wives but only if he has the means to provide for them. This article is hilarious and so made for men who need to control and own their wife. You will find the strength IA. no straight order just few words to tell guys that it is good for them if they are good with their wives. i agree with u kay. thorn that pricks him, but Allaah will expiate his sins thereby.. Yes in some Muslim countries men are more tight- lipped but why do you think that is? . The hadith is meant for two people who are married and are being the best husband and wife to one another. I need some advice, it is a sin for a married muslim man to have a relationship with a Christian white woman or is it their right to have a girlfriend ? I have also grown to have feelings for him but I try and hide it all the time.Is it possible for me to make istikaara whilst married and also what do we do? Ever wish you could read your husbands mind? During wars, there are more men killed as compared to women. know where his interests lie, so he prays istikhaarah asking that Allaah Surah Mujadilah (58) Read it. The quran says that a man must treat his wives equally, you can easily argue that if the original wife doesnt want her husband to marry again then that is him being unfair to his first wife as compared to the potential second wife. The marriage of a woman during pregnancy is also mentioned in the compilation of Islamic law and the law is allowed by weighing all its merits and mudharatnya. The coworker response, he never told you? my response,tell me what?the coworker replies, he has been married for two yrs and has a child. I confronted him and he lied about having a wife and child. Be lonely because of other women selfishness? Sexual abuse is valid if it is been done by husband. I had to be treated by my doctor for depression. For shame! If she walks in, I walk out! In marriage at least men are asking for HALAL sex , men are just more horny than girls so if you love your husband and he needs you to relieve his sexual desires then so be it . I would suggest acknowledging the layers of your relationship with him and the in-laws to have a better sense of how to orient your discussions. He loves his step mother more than the one to whom he is born. good points you wrote, but in reality, you havent married. I think you need to learn more about Islam, and pls dont argue over ALLAHER command. Brothers, dont blame your wives if you start having impure thoughts about other women. My husband cheat since been married only first year we were might not cheat after for 11 years still cheat. Why are men not told to concentrate on aakhira rather than just fullfilling their sexual desires in this world? Men cannot even manage one woman fairly, how would he be able to multi task with two women who have two separate needs and expectations. destroyed your home for his sake? He has a large group of friends. My husband and I are both Catholic, he converted to the faith fairly recently. Wel then his only after one thing isnt he This list will give you good idea of some of the things your husband thinks about, but just doesnt know how, or want, to tell you. I could not find the name of the author for this article. He already has permission From his lord with stipulations. A womans being patient in obeying her husband is one of the nobody is forcing anyone luv. Allaah says Maybe even noble- of mind in the very least. The hadith is not carte blanche for a man to come every night and request sex and then when refused hold this over her head. My life was Malcolm X and Maya Angelou, X-Men and Spider-Man; summers were spent at my nani's house in Karachi, and winters trudging through Yorkshire snow. Jazaakallahu khayran. whispers is to ask yourself the following questions and answer them If I am correct, the correct reference is that the angels will curse the wife who refuses her husbands request for sex. 3.If this young man were to get Try to sort out the small things of your day by yourself, like your husband takes care of the major problems of the day himself, without even letting you know because he doesnt want to bother you. Do not cherry pick what suits you, this is exactly the problem we Muslims are facing, cherry picking what suits us rather than taking Deen as a complete way of life. But it did.My husband did not get married to a second wife. This is the Islamic view though. I want to marry and be in halal relationship but looks like men only looking for friendship with benefits. and Allah knows best. Really. Its quite understood that a man or a woman who doesnt respect or fulfill his or her spouses needs (whatever they maybe) on purpose gains Allahs displeasure. (i.e. Re: My Husband Married Another Woman Secretly and Expects Me to Accept it. A wise woman should accept whatever Allaah decrees for her, ?I dont buy that.Atleast my husband doesnt.I do not agree with that. I thought that no one could love her husband the way I loved mine, but she taught me the true meaning of unconditional love. Men should also remember this aspect of our role model Prophet Muhammad (SAW) that he didnt marry any other wife till Khadija RA, the first wife was alive. I am an unmarried dude and may join the marriage club soon enough. Is Misuse of Polygamy the Main Cause for Divorce? but Allah ordered it in quran, the order of allah is justice because islam is full. Doesnt mean we are gonna fuck them. She lives in Senegal with her husband and his other wives. Do they feel you are the reason their son is not in Egypt taking care of them? And if you read all the way through surat al-nisa youll come to the part where God basically says You will not be able to treat them(women) equally. i met my husband 11 years ago and all through my marriage has been very bad and secrets and lies and he do haram to his body ..and the first month and before was good all was done halal but from problem s he did i lost all respect especially when i found out he had second wife i excepted it and became friend s to her because allah say,even it killed me inside i did this only for my children to still have father and i did as wife should do but the teaching he showed me i never believed from allah as allah is fair to both some people use islam for there own need s to cover there mistakes anything i did was wrong and man is like child most of time i was drained and anything i did good was wrong his haram was always halal to him no matter wat i said now its only me my children and i hope allah punish all man that put good wifes and children through this to suit there haram ways. But for the couple who are in agreement with one another and understand one another and know that perhaps you have had a long day, your stressed about work, your worried about your childrens exams etcc..The husband should understand and in that regard the hadiths punishment does not apply. Bespectacled before it was cool, I. Thanks in advance! Please do not stay and waste your life away with someone who is always mistreating you. Fee amanillah. I have just remarried another wonderful man. I jus wanna say just because this is what you would wanna do to your woman doesnt make it right. Wow i guess its informative as well as helpfull ..JazakAllah. azislam.com -All Right Reserved. I love my husband sooooo very much, and he is wonderful! I am a converted Muslim(Hindu to Muslim) bt I learned Urdu. looking at women is natural and unsinnful is just YOUR THINKING AND NOT ALL MENS. Based on the above, you should push away all whispers from Here is the sound of chapter 53 that governs the marriage of women who are pregnant due to adultery. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) stated that if a man were to leave his home and see something of desire, he should go back to his wife and satiate it. i`m not able to give my second husband a baby. This may be found out by researching about the man and asking his friends and neighbours, and the imam of his mosque; you should not base your decision on emotions or unverified claims. Quran is the only religious scripture in the world that says marry only one Quran is the only religious book, on the face of this earth, that contains the phrase marry only one. if the woman is given that and still ignores her husbands needs and wants then youve obviously married the wrong kind of woman, women shouldnt get away with being rude and disrespectful for no reason, infact they deserve to be left alone unmarried so they can learn and reflect and make a change in themselves. Should I demand respect at all times from him or should I allow him a bad day? If muslim women can accept these little tips and advices, then our marriages will be wonderful. It just means hes human.It is very important that you understand this. Please keep the following hadith in mind: Asalaamualaykum. Both were married too. So you apparently know nothing about women. 5. I did not find anything to be forced. They are in denial. All that guy did was take money from my friend, travel abroad to visit his wives, and then dump her when she found out about all his wives. Please know that when a man does not respect you, and does not keep private what goes between you and him, its a red flag against him. iv) To give protection to a widow or any other woman who requires it. It might be years later but I had to leave my reply. I guess this is life and we should always say Alhamdulliah. Saying I love you is not enough ;). You never know a persons situation until you are in it. Dont bother asking any men. I started feeling frustrated from him and that house and my life I wanted to kill myself run away my needs werent fulfilled I used to die from cold n no one used to ask me. Honestly the muslim women today are taking theri commitments way more seriously than the brothers. Of them says he loves his step mother more than 1 wife around you? she lives Senegal. 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